Good morning! Today is the last day of finals! AH!
Time to rejoice and enjoy ourselves!
But what would you say if I told you I actually find some amusement in finals? If I told you it’s actually kind of sad when they end?
I know. I’m totally crazy but hear me out…
Everything you’ve been working on all semester adds up to these two weeks. Because if we’re being honest last week was my Hell Week but whatever. It’s all of that junk you’ve learned and struggled through put into a few assignments. (No pressure haha) And it’s hard and you don’t sleep enough and you’re bumming it way too often and you’re not eating right…
But all of a sudden there’s people out. The library is packed. The lounge become home to a study group of people that you didn’t know even knew each other. There are books and bags everywhere and people kicking a soccer ball around outside for a break. And everyone is in the same boat (for the most part). And it sucks but you end up surviving. Despite the amount of times you want to cry and stop and give up you never do. That’s pretty fucking cool.
At the end of finals you’ve achieved something that you actually thought you couldn’t And within a few days you’re looking back laughing at how dramatic everything was.
And it’s beautiful. The second day of my Hell Week I was ready to break down by 10am (I’d been up since 6). I was rushing to grab something in my room before Improv and my friend had left Pumpkin Spice Tea all over my room. I’m literally walking into my room with tears in my eyes and then I have this reminder that I’m okay and there is more than what I’m stressing out. Look at this person supporting me. Minutes later my roommate has brought my favorite smoothie and cake pop for me. I have never been so fucking grateful before. In the middle of Hell I get the biggest reminder of how connected everyone is. And that’s fucking awesome. We all have that during finals: support. Maybe not everyone has legit treats, but during finals you can literally turn anywhere and some one is going to be there right next to you. And that’s a treat in itself. We are able to support each other because, unlike the rest of the semester, people are all in the same boat. And we all want everyone to float together. No one gets to sink during finals. And there’s beauty in that. And when it ends, those people you laughed and cried with in the library are gone. And everyone pretends like it didn’t happen. But it did. And it was beautiful.